2. He Wants To Be Able To Share His Passion With You
Every guy is deeply interested in some subject – the thing that he “nerds out” about more than any other.
It’s the thing that he talks about that seems like it changes his whole demeanor. Even shy guys have no problem talking about their passion, once you get them going.
Find out what he’s passionate about and ask him about it. You’ll discover that guys who are normally shy, closed off, or withdrawn will gush about the subject they care the most about.
When you know the answer to that question, you’ll know a whole lot more about him, who he really is and what makes him go.
It also makes him feel a much deeper connection to you. If you put in the time to find out why he’s so passionate about his favorite subject, he’ll feel like you get him as a person, on a deep deep level.
Guys are looking their whole lives for someone who gets them on a deep level – and they don’t easily let go of someone who does.
3. He Wants A Good Listener
Obviously, I’m not saying that you should just listen to him and whatever he says at the expense of expressing yourself – that’s ridiculous.
What I’m sharing are the things that you can do with a guy to make him feel a deep personal connection to you – that will make him want to bring your lives closer together.
Guys will bond with people who they feel that they can share anything with. They don’t bond with someone and then open up to them, opening up to you is how a guy bonds.
If you want him to bond with you and become more intimate with you, connect with him where he’s most happy and excited to share with you.
First, like I said before – he starts to bond with you. He notices that you’re really listening to him and that you’re engaging with him about things that he cares about – and that draws him closer to you.Continue reading→