Clothing ties into branding, self-perception, attitude, even daily mood. Some women like to dress flashy and show themselves on their online dating profiles to be high octane, full of excitement, and just generally badass. Does that mean that they are actually all of those things? Hell no. It would probably be super flashy and full of bravado. As I said, when it comes to online dating that is the norm. But is Kim Kardashian a domineering personality that takes over the room when she walks in? Not at all. Kim is a very friendly and down to earth women that would stop and chat with you about your dog if she saw you on the street. That clashes with her online persona, which is full on badass.
So that’s my example to show you that anyone can look badass online, but most people are not. Most woman identify very strongly with their fashion sense. Here in Long Beach especially, where looks are the most important thing. What women wear is important around here, because it implies if they are feeling serious or full of fun. When it comes to online dating profiles, the same thing is true everywhere, not just in Long Beach. Image is everything when it comes to online dating, and woman think a lot about presenting the most badass version of themselves.
On these cougar sites you are only gonna meet badass older women who don’t care what you think about them
Women are also deeply insecure about their looks. That means that profile pics might change every week or so, as they change up their look. I know a women here in Long Beach who dyes her hair every single week, and then changes her online dating profile picture to match it. In general, woman in online dating have a lot of insecurities about their looks because they know that first impressions are everything, but you still don’t want to be seen as a slut. Or wearing sluty clothing, or anything like that.Continue reading