But just how can this be? How do a victim’s experience of rape, particularly violent rape, consist of an orgasm? Before it happened, in reality you wanted to be raped and you’re… loving every minute of it… that fact alone makes вЂrape’ an act of consensual sex if you are a blogger on one website (which I refuse to honor with a link) the explanation is simple: “You’ve suddenly realized that actually, in spite of what you thought.”