If you live in an area where other swingers are hard to come by, it also makes it easy to network and form your own groups.
The user base tends to skew older, but it is mainly couples, so you don’t have to worry about a bunch of sketchy single men.
• Free to use • Purely dedicated to swingers • Rules limit spammers • Nano tipping available to encourage better posts
One of the few free swingers sites that’s actually worth your time, Reddit Swingers R4R is a great way to find real partners in your area.
This particular subreddit is purely dedicated to the swinger lifestyle, so you don’t have to worry about any other close-but-no-cigar options. They also limit how many times you post per day, drastically cutting down on spammers.
You also can’t sell anything like your cam site or OnlyFans account, but they do allow for nano tipping to encourage higher-quality posts.
The pickings are kind of slim, though, so you’ll need to check back frequently to find potential partners. They’re also rigorous about enforcing their rules, so it’s easy to run 
afoul of the moderators.
6. Fetlife — Best for Kinky Hookups
• Dedicated to finding partners who share specific fetishes • Free to join and use • Can make donations for additional privileges • Functions like social networking site
Swinging is definitely a kink, so you can hook up with like-minded users on here. However, expect your partners to want more than just a swinging experience, so you may need to be into BDSM or other fetishes as well.
It’s free to join, and you can get a lot of mileage out of a free membership, but you can also make donations for additional privileges.
It functions like a social networking website, so you can add friends and follow people who seem like potential partners. Unfortunately, the signup process isn’t especially strict, so you’ll have to deal with a lot of fakes before you find a unicorn.
7. Seeking — Best for Guaranteed Action
• One of the most sure-fire ways to find a partner • Easy to find beautiful women • Great for long-lasting relationships • Profiles undergo strict verification
Seeking is unlike any other swinger dating site on this list, in that it’s a place for sugar daddies to meet sugar babies. It’s the best way to find a sure thing.
Whether you’re a single man or a couple, you can find a beautiful woman who’s into whatever you’re into — for a price, of course. Some may balk at group action, though.
These can be one-offs, but for the most part the relationships you make on this site will be long-lasting. If you’re an attractive young lady, you can have fun and make a little spending money doing it.
8. Alt — Most Variety
• Huge user base • Lots of variety • Can put ton of info on your profile • Bling system rewards kinkiness
Alt tries to be everything to everyone, sexually speaking, so you’ll find greater variety here than just about anywhere else. The flip side, of course, is that if you’re looking for one thing in particular, it’s harder to find on this site than others.
The site has a huge user base, many of whom would be interested in swinging — but there are very few dedicated swingers on here. There are a ton of fakes and single dudes, though.
You can provide a ton of information on your profile, allowing you to make it clear exactly what you’re looking for. They also have a “bling” system that lets others reward you for being especially kinky.